Keys to Attraction PT 1

 After my recent post on types of guys/men to avoid, someone asks a question on the types of guys to attract and how to retain...

First of all, I'd like to say that there are keys to attraction...before you get to that attraction stage...you have to build a mirror of the same attraction you so desire on yourself...you ask how do I mean?

Please note that we tend to attract the type of person that we actually are ie. We attract what we are, not what we want. So,the question I ask every girl/boy is would you be attracted to YOU and would you be interested in YOU?

Here are a few tips to guide you..to build and sustain attraction

1. Be true to yourself ladies/guys, make yourself better not a fake version of you, do things you have always wanted to do, try something new, add value to yourself that way you add value and share knowledge when you meet new people. Be You all the time, simple as A B C, drop all fake attitudes and forming...no time plsss

2. Develop power attributes: you can't exchange this with anything. Examples include: confidence, smiling: it takes just 6nerves to smile and a whole lot more when we frown. Be more approachable, Guys behave like gentlemen in all the right atmosphere.

3. Positive attitude and acceptance: this in my opinion is the sexiest weapon a lady can possess. Reach into yourself and pull out the you that privately looks into the mirror sometimes and knows exactly what she wants and how to get it..

4. Ladies pay attention to the way you dress. The way you are dressed determines the way you are addressed..this cannot be over flogged. Wear clothes that flatter not send the wrong signal. Men are visual creatures, their eyes send them the first message about you" so do you want to be the "rightnowmaterial" or "take-home to mama material". I guessed as much the second option.

5. Love yourself: love your neighbor as yourself not more than yourself. Bible talk am ...not me
Men don't appreciate women with low self esteem, lack of self confidence- they use such women but I guarantee you an independent, strong and confident woman turns any guy on. *im a bad gehl lik that * hehe

6. Have a life: desperate, dramatic and clingy relationships are often rooted in a feeling of need and desperation for a man to fill your life. You don't need a man to fill your life rather make your life so interesting that when a man comes into your life - he has no option going anywhere else. KAPISH!!! Pursue your  goals, explore passion, do all the things you write in your bucket list and tell him about it *stickingoutmytongue*


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