Recipe

Idealism, Endurance, Persistence, Simplicity, Possibility… you might just be wondering what these words stand for… to me it sounds Chic!!!

These are what I tag recipe for comfort… in these ambiguous reality of tomes, it is very difficult to make these words our watch word but with the diversities of mishaps, indecency, and the likes of them all, I encourage you to think

“Idealism”- living your life according to high standards and principles even at a very difficult point in life…its simply deciding not to fall below those principles.

“Endurance”- the ability to do something that is continually painfully and unbearable. It is deciding to endure with that stubborn situation, stubborn child or boss, someone’s weakness and holding faith to reap a blessing at the end of the day.

“Persistence”- it’s the determination to do something even though it is difficult or other people oppose it- deciding never to relent or give up in ones dream, vision, goal, a business plan, in the future. This would eventually payoff.

“Simplicity”- It is the quality of being simple and not complicated. Deciding to add simplicity to the menu you dish out each and every day should be the target plan. Understand people and be generous as u go, by not making things unnecessary difficult for others around you. Allow people to read you, be easy so people can approach you easily, guard your heart but let people in, make friends and ask for assistance when you need it.

“Possibility”- this is simply not beyond bounds but around the realms of possibility, its having a possibility mentality anywhere you find yourself. Simply put, anything is possible if you think ‘possibility’.

These words I certainly believe would make one’s life a bit simpler, this season.

So dear ones embrace ‘comfort’ in this little package.

True-Love

“Barbie-doll”

The Barbara Inspire project

SPARKS AND FLAMES

When in an intimate relationship, it is bound for one to get so used to the other you begin to take each other for granted as days, weeks, months and years go by. Here are just a few tricks to spark up a relationship that tends to be going down the drain as one partner feels “shy to express him/herself, get upset and still wants to let the other partner know they are truly upset…” the trick is for whatever you are doing stay tuned with the “THE PLATINUM RULE”

1. Be nice even when you don't feel like it.

Being real is the basis for any true relationship, but never let telling the truth turn out to be a dish of meanness. For example; if you are tired and frustrated, you take it out on your partner. Here is the trick; letting your partner know you are upset in the most relaxed manner instead of dishing it out on them. Like ’Im feeling really upset that you can say………id like some time alone to………..

2. Vulnerability

Everyone likes to act tough sometimes and act like “superman” but the fact still remains we are humans. If it hurts there is absolutely nothing wrong with breaking down and letting your partner in.

3. Practice open communication
we all have our “up” and “down” moments. In any of these be sure to open up and let your partner know what’s going on inside of you. We all get triggered when someone, especially  those closest to us, says or does something that  we disagree with, don't like or goes against what  WE believe is right. And we react in a number of ways that push others away and kill relationships. THE TRICK is to stop all habitual reactions that cut connection between the both of you.

4.  Keep faith
The motivational speaker Zig Ziggler once said... "Whatever you put into your mind is going to come
out." The trick is this focus more on the positive attitudes, sides, character, personality of your partner and less of all the annoying sides.

This is one of the biggest ways to rebuild trust in a relationship.

True-Love

“Barbie-doll”

The Barbara Inspire project.