Needs of a MAN...

To Get What You Want from Your Man, Understand This...
Change starts when we recognize the simple biological differences between men and women. For instance....

Women generally want connection and family: they define themselves by their relationships.
They have the nurturing instinct, the need to take care of others.

Men, however, generally identify themselves by what they do: they want to be providers.
A man has a need to take care of the family and be the breadwinner. It is a subconscious need -- most men are
not even aware that they have this need or drive.

While men have many of these subconscious drives, there
are at least five basic needs that all men have deep within themselves; if any of these needs are not been met, it will cause problems in your relationship.

The 5 Basic Needs that ALL Men Have...
What are these needs? They are:

1. Words of affirmation and praise.

2. Respect a sense of being respected.

3. The feeling that he is being listened to and heard.

4. Physical touch. (This doesn't necessarily mean sex, but rather affection).

5. Intimacy and bonding (yes, believe it or not!)

All you have to do is meet these five basic needs consistently to see your Relationship blossom. It gives You a Great deal of influence with your man and in return He Is willing to do anything for You, because You are the source of his good feelings.

The Barbara Inspire Project
True Love
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Open Communication

Relationships don’t exist in a vacuum. They exist between two emotional human beings who bring their own past experiences, history, and expectations into it. Communication doesn’t only include everyday ‘surfacey’ topics like (“How were the kids?” “How was work?” “How’s your mother?” “What have you eaten?”).

 You need to communicate more important things to her, you need to communicate your future plans with her, you need to communicate fears, your regrets in life with her. A woman loves an open and genuine communication with her man.


 Being open means talking about things you may have never talked about with another human being before in your life. It means being vulnerable and honest with your partner, completely and unabashedly. It means opening yourself up to possible hurt and disappointment. But it also means opening yourself up to the full potential of all a relationship can be.


 To communicate better and more effectively in your relationship, you don’t only have to talk. You can communicate in other ways — through your actions, and nowadays, electronically too (through BBM, Whatsapp, Skype, Twitter).

Genuine and honest communication with your woman makes her feel part of your struggles, success, pain and joy. Talk to her about you. Honestly.

True-Love
The Barbara Inspire Project
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